eefc has a site! :)

http://emmanuel-efc.web.officelive.com/default.aspx

oooh. :)

now i can’t wait for the renovations to begin! own baptismal pool! im excited.

highlight me orange

post it updates. :)

• college began this week. classes started for real. after this term, i have  1 and a half years to go, i think.
• my biggest fear by far is having to retake a subject, resitting a paper, continuing a semester/term and not graduating.
• the roaches in cg were pretty creepy. those in the kitchen? even worse.
• had many rounds of captainball this week. running never felt as awesome before.
• guess my team got trashed in copa iba, but it was fun. eefc was good! oh, i mean mgc (2)
• felt half disappointed today, i told myself not to even have hopes that even if what i hoped didn’t happened, it would be ok. but i guess, comforting myself that way does not work. but it is ok lah.
• and you wonder how repeating the mistake of melting the microwaveable bowl is possible. oh, my elder brother did it.
• i kinda slowly like to observe buildings and its interiors. even old buildings. really.   :)
• looking forward to EEFC’s family day @ MBS.  :)   more captainball games?
• life hasn’t been as fascinating as compared to the past. but the smooth mild vanilla taste to it? i like!

holiday pichas!

holidays are over! :(

but here’s a couple of shots from my hp.

it’s the nicest holiday since college began cause i’ve never quite complaint about being bored! :)

say no to ciggies! turn them to flowers! :)

before haircut.

haircut! chopped my fringe short. :P

holiday gave me hot pink nails! :P

rich chocolate. later poor people.

super rich in chocolate.

i thought the cap looked real cool on him! im still on a cap frenzy. :)

bible. i kissed dating goodbyebook. short notes to no one in particular.

 

heart-warming kids at the centre. :)

just caused i liked monsters vs aliens that much. :)

52 cards on a bottle @ malacca trip :)

2nd reverse parking! photo courtesy of leow.

we the sibling duo. :)

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i really had a good break. from moving with the movers, water fight, tabur hike, to a malacca road trip and such! even accomplished reading 2 books! :) 

now it’s back to college days once again. im not complaining, everything’s bearable. the weekends are everything to look forward to with more activities to come! there’s camp in august which i’m hoping to attend and september’s 2 week break. :)

the black and white

i miss sketching. a lot.

define it

now shorts…as in short pants on the runway are like the length of the underwear!

so how do you define dressing modestly?

how short is short? how little becomes skimpy?

how does that deal with dressing to the occassion?

you tell me. cause my idea of shorts are ones that aren’t below the length of my fingers.

Temptations

first i really want to get a job to earn some cash.

then im so tempted to travel and do some other whacky stuff.

today i went window shopping, and was tempted to buy a blouse. which i didn’t, cause i was short in cash.

but i got myself a tee. (..i feel poor already)

later, after i came home, i went online and saw a super cute umbrella!

okay, i digressed. i  don’t even need an umbrella.

then i saw pictures of my brother’s trip to greece, and im determined to backpack to europe.

the determination increases especially when i learned architecture history.

…so where should i start?

…saving, working and stop tempting myself further to travel the world, and bungee jump.

oh wait, i don’t even intend to bungee jump. xP

ENFP to ESFJ

2 years ago i was an ENFP.

Vishal persuaded me to take the personality test again. it’s changed…ooh.

The Caregiver

As an ESFJ, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion.

ESFJs are people persons – they love people. They are warmly interested in others. They use their Sensing and Judging characteristics to gather specific, detailed information about others, and turn this information into supportive judgments. They want to like people, and have a special skill at bringing out the best in others. They are extremely good at reading others, and understanding their point of view. The ESFJ’s strong desire to be liked and for everything to be pleasant makes them highly supportive of others. People like to be around ESFJs, because the ESFJ has a special gift of invariably making people feel good about themselves.

The ESFJ takes their responsibilities very seriously, and is very dependable. They value security and stability, and have a strong focus on the details of life. They see before others do what needs to be done, and do whatever it takes to make sure that it gets done. They enjoy these types of tasks, and are extremely good at them.

ESFJs are warm and energetic. They need approval from others to feel good about themselves. They are hurt by indifference and don’t understand unkindness. They are very giving people, who get a lot of their personal satisfaction from the happiness of others. They want to be appreciated for who they are, and what they give. They’re very sensitive to others, and freely give practical care. ESFJs are such caring individuals, that they sometimes have a hard time seeing or accepting a difficult truth about someone they care about.

With Extraverted Feeling dominating their personality, ESFJs are focused on reading other people. They have a strong need to be liked, and to be in control. They are extremely good at reading others, and often change their own manner to be more pleasing to whoever they’re with at the moment.

The ESFJ’s value system is defined externally. They usually have very well-formed ideas about the way things should be, and are not shy about expressing these opinions. However, they weigh their values and morals against the world around them, rather than against an internal value system. They may have a strong moral code, but it is defined by the community that they live in, rather than by any strongly felt internal values.

ESFJs who have had the benefit of being raised and surrounded by a strong value system that is ethical and centered around genuine goodness will most likely be the kindest, most generous souls who will gladly give you the shirt off of their back without a second thought. For these individuals, the selfless quality of their personality type is genuine and pure. ESFJs who have not had the advantage of developing their own values by weighing them against a good external value system may develop very questionable values. In such cases, the ESFJ most often genuinely believes in the integrity of their skewed value system. They have no internal understanding of values to set them straight. In weighing their values against our society, they find plenty of support for whatever moral transgression they wish to justify. This type of ESFJ is a dangerous person indeed. Extraverted Feeling drives them to control and manipulate, and their lack of Intuition prevents them from seeing the big picture. They’re usually quite popular and good with people, and good at manipulating them. Unlike their ENFJ cousin, they don’t have Intuition to help them understand the real consequences of their actions. They are driven to manipulate other to achieve their own ends, yet they believe that they are following a solid moral code of conduct.

All ESFJs have a natural tendency to want to control their environment. Their dominant function demands structure and organization, and seeks closure. ESFJs are most comfortable with structured environments. They’re not likely to enjoy having to do things which involve abstract, theoretical concepts, or impersonal analysis. They do enjoy creating order and structure, and are very good at tasks which require these kinds of skills. ESFJs should be careful about controling people in their lives who do not wish to be controlled.

ESFJs respect and believe in the laws and rules of authority, and believe that others should do so as well. They’re traditional, and prefer to do things in the established way, rather than venturing into unchartered territory. Their need for security drives their ready acceptance and adherence to the policies of the established system. This tendency may cause them to sometimes blindly accept rules without questioning or understanding them.

An ESFJ who has developed in a less than ideal way may be prone to being quite insecure, and focus all of their attention on pleasing others. He or she might also be very controling, or overly sensitive, imagining bad intentions when there weren’t any.

ESFJs incorporate many of the traits that are associated with women in our society. However, male ESFJs will usually not appear feminine at all. On the contrary, ESFJs are typically quite conscious about gender roles and will be most comfortable playing a role that suits their gender in our society. Male ESFJs will be quite masculine (albeit sensitive when you get to know them), and female ESFJs will be very feminine.

ESFJs at their best are warm, sympathetic, helpful, cooperative, tactful, down-to-earth, practical, thorough, consistent, organized, enthusiastic, and energetic. They enjoy tradition and security, and will seek stable lives that are rich in contact with friends and family.

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how accurate do you think this is? LoL :)